tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1643729495469304579.post8245139306075580957..comments2023-11-05T03:44:51.535-08:00Comments on Sartorial Sidelines: All the Frills: Anne BoleynCourtney Erinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03713150819439653811noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1643729495469304579.post-74242333984995889402018-08-20T08:30:32.361-07:002018-08-20T08:30:32.361-07:00In Latin America its even worst as when you marry ...In Latin America its even worst as when you marry not only is the man's name added to yours BUT the word "de" is included. Meaning you'd be Courtney DE yourhusband'slastname. "DE" meaning belongs to. I kept my last name.<br />However here the tradition is the children have both last names.<br />I think Brasil and Portugal are the ones that have children bear the mom and then the father's last name.Lorenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16720997862417551402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1643729495469304579.post-15026085050550695202018-08-12T15:13:40.696-07:002018-08-12T15:13:40.696-07:00That's definitely an interesting article, I wo...That's definitely an interesting article, I won't change my last name, but having kids definitely brings up questions of whose last name will they get/hyphenated etc. I said we should combine ours, only because it sounded funny. I love that she got your last name, so awesome!! <br />The fires in Greece are so awful, we traveled all around there years ago and its crazy to see that. <br />I truly do not understand why mothers are so harshly judged, it's awful hearing some of it. We all need to give each other a break!<br />JennaJennaSteviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13827315828429820446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1643729495469304579.post-2180215810969190292018-08-10T08:47:38.792-07:002018-08-10T08:47:38.792-07:00I think that is wonderful that Eleanor has your la...I think that is wonderful that Eleanor has your last name. When I thought that marriage was in my future, I was pretty resolute that I would not change my name. While I do like the idea of having a unified family name, it seems awful to give up part of my identity to do so. (not to mention the headache of having to change my name in 800 million places.)<br /><a href="http://iamchiconthecheap.com/" rel="nofollow">Chic on the Cheap</a>Lydiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07972259580330778711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1643729495469304579.post-39381034868942770852018-08-10T07:22:07.073-07:002018-08-10T07:22:07.073-07:00I'm currently deciding what to do about my las...I'm currently deciding what to do about my last name. I want to change it because of the tradition and it's whats done. But I also love my own identity and my last name. Just feels so weird to change it! Especially since I never expected to get married, haha! But if we ever had kids I would have the same issue.<br />http://www.closet-fashionista.comCloset Fashionistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17307750287416918321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1643729495469304579.post-22932097373842404112018-08-10T05:43:12.759-07:002018-08-10T05:43:12.759-07:00That first article, and your perspective on giving...That first article, and your perspective on giving Eleanor your last name, are so interesting to me. I never gave a single thought to changing my name when I got married - my husband didn't care, but my in-laws remain dismayed, which I will never understand. The part of it that is particularly funny is that I was much more of a grown-up person when we first moved in together, so for years (and still), the vast majority of our accounts were in my name. Ian often gets called Mr. Fardoe at the grocery store and by service providers. We just chuckle about it, because really, who cares? We were individuals with our own names before we were married and remain individuals after, whatever anyone calls us... but I know not all men would take being called the wrong name with the same good humour that Ian does.<br />xox,<br />CeeCeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08822990898186192908noreply@blogger.com